Tired

Yesterday was another long day.  It started at 7:30am, but I was the last one there.  Some teachers had been up since 5:00am getting the scouts up and moving.  They were all in formation and doing morning assembly stuff when I got there.  They handed me breakfast (meat and rice).  Most of the morning was similar to the other morning.  The younger students were only doing the one day and one night.  After the singing and tunnel thing, they set off to trek.  Pat and I sat by the main road to help them cross the street.  They trekked up to the lake I had been to the previous day and then back to school.  We had lunch and then sat around for hours watching them set up tents.  It was market day so that made me feel better.  I decided to eat dinner at home since I had to go back for another long meeting in Thai and the evening campfire activities.

At 7:00pm they were all standing in formation ready for the campfire.  There’s no campfire in sight.  There is a large white basin in the middle.  I assumed this is where the fire would be.  There were about 11 older people dressed in their scout uniforms who attended.  They had special seats.  I assumed they were retired teachers or town officials.  There was a full drum set.  One of the older men was the MC of the night.  He did a lot of talking, singing and getting the kids all fired up.  He was also quite funny, as everyone was laughing the whole time.  He had so much energy and was jumping around and dancing most of the evening.  Some small fireworks went off and the fire was “lit”.  It was one of those fabric fires with a fan below it and a red light so the fabric looked like dancing flames.  At some point earlier in the day, I was told I could dance with them.  There was a group of girls that came out in long silk skirts and Tshirts.  They walked around the circle doing a luau type dance.  A group of boys followed them, mimicking them.  Then, I was pulled out of my seat and shuttled down to the circle to join them.  I tried my best, but I’m sure I looked like the farong (foreigner) trying to dance.  They loved it.  There were more speeches, games, plays, singing, speeches, plays.  I figured I could at least follow the plays the students put on – no.  It’s funny, but the students don’t sing, the teachers do.  The guests (retired teachers?) were the life of the party.  They were the band and the singers.  The current teachers waited on them, bringing them drinks and snacks.  The part I liked the most was when one of my best students came out to introduce his group’s play, he introduced it in perfect English “Ladies and Gentlemen, I present to you Thai History”.  It must have been a play about Thai History.  Overall, it was a fun evening, but way too long.  About half way through, I thought, “ok, I can live here”.  Then the last hour was, “how much longer”?  It was done around 11:00pm.  And of course, at 11:00pm they tried to feed me rice soup.

I was back at school at 8:00am and morning assembly was underway.  Similar breakfast, speeches and singing.  It wrapped up around 10:00 and then we “helped” them break camp.  Even though it was a long 2.5 days, I think it was good to spend more time with the other teachers and be exposed to some of the school culture.

I made a new best friend.  He is Noi’s husband.  Noi is the teacher that is my Thai Sister.  He has just as much energy as her.  He is a retired English Teacher.  He kept saying that he gets a headache when he tries to speak English, but then follows me around asking me questions.  I enjoyed speaking with him over the past two days.  He is in the third video playing the xylophone.    The first two videos are of his wife, Noi.

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That’s a bucket of frogs at the market
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The best thing I’ve eaten here – ginger and herbs wrapped in leaves
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That’s one green bean

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Mixing paint to put on the Scout’s faces
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Bamboo Rice that I helped make yesterday
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School dog got hurt – fresh back from the vet
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Lizard at the market

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“campfire”
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School DJ spinning the tunes

Scout Day is Long

The weird day kept going.  One teacher came up to me and asked if I wanted to help make bamboo rice.  Sure.  I watched them cook the coconut milk, put sugar and salt in it.  Then they put rice in the bamboo shoot.  I helped pour the coconut milk in after.  Then they take a large leaf, roll it up and stick it in the open end so the milk and rice doesn’t come out.  Then it’s grilled.  After that we went to another area of the school and had a teacher’s meeting about what was going to happen tonight.  Huh?  I started at 8:00am and it’s now 4:30pm.  The meeting went for almost two hours.  The best I could tell is there were 15 stations.  I was going to be at station 4 with Q, my next door neighbor.  They brought out dinner.  Pat said all the food was spicy and sent me off with her husband to get dinner at a nearby restaurant.  We got back at 7:00pm and the scouts were meeting, getting the lowdown on the activities for the evening.  Q and I went to our station.  It was about 10 strings of barbed wire near the ground.  Each group of scouts had to figure out how to hold up the barbed wire high enough for students in the group to crawl under the barbed wire.  This is what I did all night.  I have no idea what the other stations had.  One was definitely a short zip line because I could see it off in the distance when a group shined their lights on the person zipping.  One station was at the top of a very high hill and involved singing.  We did this until 10:00pm.  Then we went back to the main meeting hall and had rice soup while they spoke to the scouts again.  I got home around 11:00pm.  Breakfast is at 7:30am tomorrow.  I wonder what the day has in store tomorrow – more scout stuff.  My missing helmet was sitting next to my door when I got home.  Sleepy.

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Not sure what happened

Today was weird. I was supposed to go out with the military students to do military training. But when I got to school it was all scouts, no military. The scouts raised the flag and sang the national anthem twice. Then they had announcements or meeting or who knows.  After that a bunch of the teachers got together with drums, microphones, and cymbals and sang Scout songs. They gave me a set of symbols. While the teachers were singing the scouts went through a tunnel and then got their face painted with mud. Then the Scouts headed out to go trekking. Just as I was about to go back to the house to get my computer so I could work on lesson plans, a couple of the military students came by to pick me up. They took me out on a motorbike.  For about an hour we went down trails that a mountain bike shouldn’t even be on.  The student driving me was a good driver.  At some point we came across a bunch of other military students all with black painted faces. They dropped me off with them and we hiked for a little while. Then we came to a lake where most of the other military students were.  I’m guessing the ones with the black faces were the new military students and the ones on the motorbikes were older.  I watched as some of the military students took a metal tin and some hay and used it to cook a chicken. They had coconuts and opened one up for me to eat . Just about the time the chicken was done, a car shows up with some of the teachers and the rest of the food.   After lunch, they asked if I wanted to go back by car, motorbike or walk. I said it didn’t matter. Somehow between that and trying to find my helmet, I ended up on a motorbike with one of the students. We drove to a small coffee shop and got coffee and then I got in the car and they dropped me back off at school. Now I’m sitting here not sure what to do.  I have no idea where my helmet is.

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The cooked chicken is to the left of the two boys

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Chicken on a plate
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These were at the coffee stand

Dam

Since I have a motor bike now, I took it Saturday to the top of the dam.  It was beautiful, but not as pretty as I had seen in pictures.  The sky is constantly hazy here from the smoke of everyone burning stuff.  I wanted to see mountains and lake going on forever.  However, it was beautiful in an eerie kind of way.  I got a few pictures that captured it pretty well.  I had heard that there was an island not too far away with a temple on top.  It should just be a matter of walking down to the water and hiring a boat.  So, I went into the gift shop to get a snack.  Potato chips here are just horrible.  The flavors are all spicy and/or meat.  I found a bag with a picture of cheese!  Yay!  Oh, wait, there was also a picture of a chili pepper.  That would probably kill me.  So, I opted for the one flavored Hot Pot.  I like steak.  Steak flavored chips can’t be bad.  Then I got a strawberry flavored soda, because, why not?

I headed down the hill to where I saw a bunch of floating buildings with boats attached to them.  As I walked by a bunch of men sitting on a bench they all called Good Morning and Good Afternoon out to me.  It was morning so I said Good Morning back.  I get down to the floating buildings and watch groups of people get on to them.  Then a boat drags the floating building out into the lake.  Then another comes in and another leaves.  I try to ask someone how to get a boat, but the whole conversation fails.  I have no idea what is going on.  I decide this is a challenge for another day and head back up the hill.  I see a man coming up from a building/boat combo and manage to say boat for hire in Thai.  He motions to the dam and then his motorbike.  So, I let him take me on his motorbike back up to the good morning good afternoon guys.  Now I feel silly.  I say boat for hire again.  They say 1? and ask where?  I mention temple.  One guy puts his hands over his head making a triangle shape with his arms.  That could be the international sign for temple so I said yes.  The price is 600 baht which is a lot on a Thai salary, but is about $17.  I don’t plan on doing this again so it all seems fair.  Then another guy takes me back down the hill on his motorbike and goes to get the boat.

The boat driver keeps asking me “Chaing Mai”?  I keep saying No.  Does he want to know if I’m from Chaing Mai or if I want to go there?  Technically, you can get from the dam to Chaing Mai by boat, but it would be a long long way.  So, I’m either going to an island temple, Chaing Mai or somewhere else.  I decide to eat my snack on the boat.  You guessed it, steak flavored chips are not good.   A little while later I see an island with a temple at the top of a giant hill.  Whew.  It was a long trek up the hill.  It was windy which set off all the wind chimes.  It had a main temple and 7 or 8 other smaller temples.  I wandered around for awhile and then headed back down.  I had lunch on the floating building that was docked next to the island and then headed back to the dam.  As the boat driver was taking me back up the hill on his motorbike, he asked me again “Chaing Mai”.  I responded with kru (teacher) Sam Ngao Wit (name of my school).  He got a look of understanding and was quite satisfied with my answer.

I spent the rest of the day doing laundry, rearranging my bedroom and cooking.  Sunday I decided to go to the coffee shop and then to the next village to explore.  The fuel gauge on the motorbike said almost empty and it wouldn’t start.  I know it was half full when I returned on Saturday.  So, my motorbike has a leak.  I took the bicycle to the coffee shop, but the village is more than I want to do on that bicycle.  By the time I got home from the coffee shop, the bicycle had a flat tire.  I tried to take the bicycle to the mechanic nearby but he wasn’t in.  A woman was there and she pointed down the street I just came up and said a bunch of stuff, basically motioning me to go that way.  I have no idea how far down the road he might be.  I wouldn’t recognize him if I saw him.  Is he just hanging out with a friend?  Is he working somewhere else?  At a loss of what to do, I just walked my sad bike back home.  I had a half a day of freedom and now I’m stranded again.

The wifi doesn’t work at all this weekend, which is why you didn’t see a blog until now.  My portable wifi doesn’t work either.  I know I have to put more money on it, but I have no idea how to.  The sim card doesn’t have the phone number.  There’s no buttons so I can’t dial the number that tells you what your phone number is.  I’ve left messages on line with the phone company.  Someone suggested putting the sim card in my phone and then getting the number.  That didn’t work.  Someone suggested going to the phone store.  We don’t have a phone store and the electronics store that has a few phones is in the village I can’t get to.

Today – same as most – morning dreads.  I almost didn’t get up because of the dreads and because it was cold again.  I got up.  By mid morning I felt ok, so that’s actually a huge improvement.  Someone is working on my motorbike today.  I don’t know what they found, but I know someone is on it.  Last week they asked if I wanted to go trekking with the scouts Thursday and Friday this week.  I said sure.  Then today I found out I am going to military training on Thursday with the military students.  They asked if I was ok wearing a mask and crawling under things.  I think they mean an obstacle course.  I said sure.  I’m not sure I am ok with that.  Curiosity is winning this one so I guess I’m going and will report back later.  I’m still going trekking on Friday.  Is trekking hiking?

I had my first M6 (oldest grade) class today.  They have been in test prep since I got here so I hadn’t taught to them yet.  I did introductions mostly.  Since I will only see them a few more times before they graduate, I asked them what they wanted me to teach them.  They said things like reading, conversation, vocabulary.  I asked what topics?  They came up with the topics of Crime and Travel, not together, just two separate topics.  This should be fun.  I don’t know where to start.

I got a post card today from Colorado.  Eeeeeeeee!  Thanks Jay!

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Motor Bike

I’m still waking up with the dreads.  But, at least I’m doing better by mid day.  Pat makes me lunch every day.  Then I get all foggy brained in the afternoon from all the rice.  Can’t win.

Yesterday I didn’t have any classes because the ones I was supposed to teach were in tutoring all week.  They are getting ready for the end of the year exams.  Some of the English teachers brought me test examples (last year’s test) and asked me questions on some of the ones that didn’t make sense to them.  They didn’t make sense to me either.  One of them was written so badly that none of the answers were correct grammar.  Another one said something to the effect of “Why did the wife suggest her husband shouldn’t bring his camera to the concert?  a.  They don’t allow cameras at the concert.  b. She didn’t want to end up carrying it.  c.  She thought he might forget it.  or d.  she thought he might take pictures the whole time instead of enjoying the concert”.   wtf?  How is this a question on an English exam?

Yesterday after school, Pat took me to get the School’s motorbike which was at the mechanic’s.  It’s old, but the school is going to lend it to me for free.  The mechanic turned it on using a screwdriver because it didn’t have a key.  It also didn’t have a battery so the horn and lights barely worked.  He asked if I wanted a key and a battery.  Um, yea.  I got to test drive it though.  It has 4 gears.  I’ve never driven a motorbike with gears so I was nervous.  A shaky start, but it’s easy enough.

I spent most of the evening texting with my roomies from Hua Hin.  We are going to go to Vietnam in March!  We figured out where we wanted to go.  But, we haven’t figured out dates yet.

Today, as with every day, I’m awake before the alarm goes off.  Not wide awake, but awake enough to be aware that there are a lot of roosters in this area.  A lot.  They are so noisy and just non-stop.  Then, after my alarm goes off, I take my ear plugs out.  OMG there is so much going on in the woods.  There are pigeons living under the roof.  They are making so much noise in the morning.  Thank got I have bug screens on the windows or they would be in my house.  There’s always something running around in circles.  I can hear it rustling the leaves.  I think it’s a stray dog, but who knows?  There a ton of other birds trying to out cry the roosters.  I should try to get a sound clip.

Today I got the motor bike.  Made it home ok.  I have a little trouble starting it so I have to practice that.

I taught teachers again tonight.  I went over pronouns.  I also went over some of the sounds we have in English that they don’t have in Thai so they struggle.  They have trouble with B so Crab becomes Crap.  V is difficult so Volleyball becomes Wolleyball.  Th is a mystery.  Last week when I was teaching the word Athlete, the kids kept saying Asslete.  They can’t say S followed by a consonant.  Sweet becomes Saweet.   Then they asked a bunch of questions.  What’s the difference between street, road and esplanade.  How do they even know the word esplanade?  They wanted to know about idioms.  I used “It’s raining cats and dogs” as an example.  Blank confused stares.  I’ll have to work on that.

After class a different teacher took me out to dinner.  Mae, is a young teacher fresh out of college.  She joined us tonight and Monday night too.  They are taking me to dinner as payment for teaching.  But, I think they are just taking Mae because she’s young and they are taking her under their wing and trying to take care of her.  It’s beautiful to watch.

Today’s pictures are random:

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My school
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Thai students are great artists.  This is my favorite
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The mechanic’s house/shop

Sticky Rice

Back to teaching.  My lesson that I planned for this week was way to easy for the M5s (high school Jr).  They have a great grasp of English vocabulary.  They do great repeating if I give them a dialogue to say.  Then, if I have them try to come up with sentences or dialog on their own, it breaks down.  I have to come up with ways to get them to try experiment/play around with what they know.  Now, I feel dumb.  How do I do that?  Then I think, I can’t say in Thai what I’m asking them to learn in English.  It’s hard to wrap my brain around that.

After school yesterday I did an English class for the teachers that were interested.  There were 6 teachers.  I had no idea how many would show up and how much they would already know so I basically didn’t prepare anything and hoped it would go well.  I started with “How are you”?  They know this well, but the answer always is “I am fine”.  I tried to show them that the answer could be good, great, not good, hungry, cold, hot, etc.  They came up with great questions, like what is the difference between “How do you do”? and “How are you”?  I had trouble explaining that someone could be funny or fun, but if you answer “How are you” with “I am funny”, it might not mean funny ha ha, it might mean funny not right.  I didn’t quite explain this one well.  They had questions like what’s the difference between cool and cold.  My favorite was what’s the difference between “I’m thinking of you” and “I miss you”.  I pointed to my head and said in a calm tone “I’m thinking of you”.  Then I pointed to my heart, collapsed around my heart a little and said with feeling “I miss you”.  They got it.  I’m also trying to show them that there is formal/polite ways of saying things, but we don’t use them that often.  “How do you do”? is more formal, but hardly anyone says it.  There is a common way of saying things that isn’t as personal as just with friends, but isn’t as formal as what is usually taught as polite.  Then one of the teachers took me and another teacher out to dinner.  I’ve only been to one restaurant here, 3 times, taken there by 3 different teachers.  They all love that restaurant.  It probably was one of the best Thai meals I’ve had yet.

Last night I was woken up several times by a lot of noise coming from the kitchen.  It sounded like someone was throwing plastic water jugs around.  I’ve heard this before and wondered what my next door neighbor was doing in the middle of the night.  My next door neighbor isn’t home.  Crap, something else is making this noise.  It was a rat.  I don’t know what the heck was doing to make that noise, but I came downstairs to find him in the kitchen looking very confused as to why I was there looking at him.  It didn’t appear that he had been in the food.  wtf was he doing to make that noise?  Why do I have to have so many visitors?  I’d rather have the frog back than a rat.   Today Pat took me to get “chemicals” that rats don’t like the smell of.  They look like moth balls.  I plan to put them around the kitchen floor and see if they work.

Today was similar where I just don’t want to get out of bed and I just don’t want to do anything, but go home.  But, by the end of the day, I feel better.  I wish I could get rid of this morning dread, but I don’t know how.  It’s not a new thing.  I had it for years when I lived in the US.  I’ve had it off and on for most of my life.  It had disappeared completely over the past 3 years so I figured I had worked through it.  I thought it was part of the not wanting to be here issue from a young age, being adopted.  So, either I still have more work to do on that issue or it’s something similar, but slightly different.

The afternoon market is Tuesday and Fridays.  We went after school.  I like the market.  I love the idea of buying food from the people that grew or cooked it.  I much prefer this to a grocery store back home.  It also has fascinating and weird things which I like too.  For instance, tonight I saw 5 lizards tied together so they couldn’t run off.  They were alive and for sale for food.  On one hand, I find it gross, on the other, I find it sad and yet so fascinating.  I asked Pat if she eats lizards.  She said no, but some do.  I saw two catfish jump out of a bucket and try to get away.  They got pretty far before someone scooped them up and put them back in the bucket.  I saw what looked like pig skin, but the entire pig head.  I have seen them cooking stuff in bamboo and heard it was sticky rice.  You see the bamboo grilling and you want it even before you know what is in it.  Tonight Pat’s husband bought me one.  I had it with dinner.  The rice was sweet and had black beans in it.  If I have to eat rice, I vote for bamboo sticky rice.

I am probably just as interesting a sight at the market.  I tower over everyone.  I have to duck constantly because I am taller than the fabric they have hung between the food stalls.  One kid about 6 or 7 almost fell over staring at me with a confused look on his face.  I often get this stare from younger kids.  Some people don’t pay attention to me.  Some look surprised and delighted when I smile or wai.  Some come up to Pat and tell her they want to talk to me.  One guy always wants to talk with me and has pretty good English.  Tonight he told Pat he didn’t want to talk to her he wanted to talk to the other teacher (me).

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