Henderson Waves

First order of business of the day was to check out the East Shore Park.  It looks like a long boardwalk along the beach.  I got a cab down there and it let me off at one end where there were a bunch of restaurants and shops.  It’s Monday so most of the shops and restaurants were closed.  It looked like a ghost town.  There were no cars in the parking lot.  I did find a place to have breakfast.  To my surprise, my french toast had peanut butter in it.  Unnecessary.

I walked around the park for awhile.  It doesn’t seem like a tranquil island beach when you look out to the water and see nothing but a solid mass of cargo ships.  The park overdid itself like I imagine all the parks in Singapore do.  It had benches, exercise equipment, bbq grills, separate walking and biking paths along with a lot of other amenities.  It was spotless clean too.  I did walk by an area of tents, boats and roll away garbage bins.  Not sure what that was all about.  I’d have thought it was homeless if it wasn’t for the fact that the garbage bins outnumbered the tents.

It was getting too hot for humans to survive outside.  So, I decided to do the shopping I needed to get done.  Oh, crap, how do I get anywhere?  I’m at the ghost town beach and the only taxi is the one that let me off hours ago.  I actually did see a few taxis, but they all went by me.  I ended up going through a highway underpass to another part of town which was half a ghost town and getting a taxi there.

Orchard Road is the big shopping area, but it’s very high end and probably very expensive.  Judy had suggested that I got to Mustafa’s.  It’s cheaper and it’s a madhouse that needs to be experienced.  It is one store that is 5 or 6 levels tall and has almost everything ever made in it.  The isles are too small for two people to be in them at once and there are already 4 people in every isle.  There is a small order to things such as all the cosmetics are on one floor, but if you want perfume, it’s in 6 different places on that floor.  I was looking for perfume that Pat wanted me to pick up.  I also wanted to buy some cosmetics for myself.  Everything in Thailand has whitening agents in it because they think light skin is pretty.  I’m now darker than most Thais and am happy to pale naturally over time without whiteners.  I also wanted to get a gift for Judy for letting me stay at her place.  After wandering the first floor, I decided I was up for the challenge of the other 5 floors. It was like a maze – just when you thought you got to the end of the store, there was another room on that level.  After 2 hours I gave up on tackling the whole store.  It was not possible and people are so rude and pushy, I couldn’t take it anymore.

Last night when Judy asked what I was going to do today, I told her I wanted to see Henderson Waves.  She hadn’t seen it, looked it up and wanted to go so we decided to do it after she got home from school.  From what I had seen on line, it looked like an undulating bridge, but I couldn’t figure out how you would drive or walk on it.  Andy decided to join us.  It was a foot bridge between two really big parks.  It is the highest bridge in Singapore.  The wave part is off the side of the walking part.  It is stunningly beautiful with great views off either side.  It is a serious piece of art, in my opinion.  Bravo.  We stayed up there for quite awhile taking pictures.

After Henderson Waves, we took the train to Sentosa.  Sentosa is a landfill island, meaning, the island was made from the extra dirt of other construction projects over the years.  It has a huge park, Universal Studios, beaches and who knows what other wonderful things.  It was almost dark when we got there.  We went to the shore and I put some of Scott’s ashes in the water!  So, now he’s in Singapore too.

Off to dinner and then Judy’s neighborhood bar.  She introduced me to a guy named Ian who works with or runs or owns a company that teaches English for hospitality industry workers.  She was hoping he might have some future work for me.  He was with family that was visiting and was not the least bit interested in talking to me.  Oh well, it was worth a try to make a new connection.

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View from the bedroom at Judy’s

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Gardens by the Bay

I spent most of the day near the Gardens by the Bay and the Marina Bay Sands.  The Gardens by the Bay is a big garden area with big art and sprawling gardens.  They have these huge metal and plant trees called the Super Trees.  You can go up on a floating walkway up in the canopy of the trees.  Near the Gardens by the Bay is the Marina Bay Sands which is a huge hotel, casino, and shopping mall.  I met a few of the people over there to go to the Art Science Museum.

The Art Science Museum is an amazing concept.  It’s dedicated to the mix of art and science.  One of the exhibits they had was on gemstones.  The other was an exhibit of interactive light art.  The first exhibit was a room with a “painting” on the wall.  It was flowers that grew, bloomed, and then the petals blew away.  Butterflies also came out of the flowers.   Then as the painting moved, the parts that moved off the painting became blurry and went up the walls, ceiling and floor consuming the entire room.  There’s a short video of the “painting”.  There were rooms where kids could draw things and what they drew then became part of a movie on the screen behind them.  One was an ocean scene with fish swimming around.  The fish were all the drawings kids had made.  Another was a table and things were projected onto the table – gnomes, rain, flowers, butterflies, ladders, etc.  If the gnomes were on the table and you put your hand down, they interacted with your hand by jumping over it, going around it or one time they set up a ladder and crawled up Amie’s arm.  You could catch the rain in your hand and divert it somewhere else on the table.  It seemed like there were an endless number of interactions.  Sorry, no video of this one.  There were some other exhibits, but the final one was a room you walked through with hundreds, maybe thousands of lights.  They moved to the music, change colors, and moved through the room.  It was supposed to mimic the way particles and light behave in space.  I could have stayed in here for ever.  I posted three way too short videos for this.  It reminded me of the Cubitron at Burning Man a few years ago, but way better.

Amie and I hung out the rest of the afternoon.  We walked around the gardens as it was getting dark.  I found the floating baby statue.  It’s called Planet.  Not sure why.  It was too dark to get a good photo or I’m just bad at night photos.  Then we went up to the Marina Bay Sands at night.  You can pay to go to the observation deck or you can go to the lounge and have a drink (with the price of drinks here, it’s about the same).  The Marina Bay Sands has the largest infinity pool in the world (or the longest or the highest or something like that).  I got a really bad photo of it, but you get the idea.  Of course, people not staying in the hotel can’t get very near the pool.  You can only marvel at it from afar.  The rooms run about $600 a night and up.  The view of the city is amazing from the top (56 floors?).

Out in front of the mall that is attached to the hotel they do a water and light show every night.  After drinks we went down to watch it.  They spray a thin wall of water and then project a video and lasers on to it.  It’s all set to music too.  In general, I didn’t find the show to be too exciting, but the concept of projecting video onto water was brilliant.  I added a short video of that too.

I think I’m in love with Singapore.

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I am too old for hostels

It’s official, I am too old for staying in hostels.  The top bunk was too much.  I didn’t hurt myself, but it made me quite grumpy.  Then I have to go upstairs to go to the bathroom.  My suitcase is in a locker so I have to figure out what I need and throw it up to the top bunk and if I forget something go through the whole locker process again.  I know first world problems.  Still, I got in around 3:00 and it was a room full of snoring men.  I put my ear plugs in, but it wasn’t enough.  The sound resistant walls were useless.  They were air condition resistant walls though.  So, even though the air conditioning was on, it didn’t reach me.  Someone packed up all their stuff and left at 4:00am.  This involved a ridiculous amount of in and outs and my bed is right next to the door.  Then other people got up at 6:00am and more at 8:00am.  So, I barely slept.  Last night, one of my new friends offered that I could stay with her in the future.  I emailed her.  The future starts tonight.  I went looking for the breakfast that comes with my room and didn’t find that so I promptly checked out and caught a cab to Judy’s.  Now I have a queen sized bed and bathroom to myself with air condition that works.

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New Friends

Another travel day.  I left Bali way too early.  I told my hotel when my flight was and they called a taxi for me.  I basically went an hour too early.  Oh well, time enough to get some food.

When I decided to go to Singapore, it was just me.  Two of my friends told me they knew someone there and put me in touch with these people.  They both gave me pointers on what part of town to stay in and said they’d love to hang out in the evenings.  Yay! New Friends!

Singapore is so expensive.  I couldn’t find a hotel under $100 a night.  Hostels ran $28+ per night.  I found a hostel that said they had sound resistant walls and looked all futuristic and high tech so I decided to book there.  I arrived and the place was so hot.  The place has air conditioning, but none of it was on.  By the time I had settled in and changed clothes, I was sweating so bad that outside seemed like a cooler option.  The beds don’t look all futuristic, but they still look pretty cool.  Unfortunately, I got a top bunk.  Hope I don’t kill myself in the middle of the night.

So far, I like Singapore.  It is a very clean and safe city.  There are trees and gardens everywhere.  The streets aren’t crazy like all the other places I’ve been lately.  They drive like civilized people and stay within their own lane and follow basic traffic rules.  Most large cities I’ve been in have an aggressive feeling to them and I figured it was just the hustle and bustle of a big city.  Singapore has hustle and bustle, but without the aggressive feeling.  Also, all the buildings are unique and have quite a bit of an artistic quality to them.

I headed out to find my way to dinner.  One of my new friends set up a dinner with me, his boyfriend, a woman he works with and two other people that were visiting Singapore.  We started off with dinner at an Indian restaurant and then went and checked out some of the Singapore night life.  Everyone was wonderful and so funny.  I had a great night.  I’m so glad I decided to come here.  Thanks Erin for introducing me to my new friend!

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Didn’t Miss Much

Nothing too exciting happened yesterday.  We went to a very expensive restaurant for dinner.  Just riding around, I think I enjoy the feel of Seminyak better than Ubud.  Not sure what it is, but an energetic feel.  Or maybe less concentration of people.  Still a lot of tourists either way.  Maybe it’s just the beaches.

Today we went to see Tanah Lot which is an island temple.  It was beautiful, but you can’t go across to the temple.  But with the waves crashing on the rocks, it makes for some wonderful pictures. After that we spent some time on the beach and fun beach bar after.  It reminded me a lot of beach bars in Florida.  Overall, the day was nice, but I am very ready to move on to Singapore tomorrow.

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Outside wall of restaurant made of old shutters

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More Beach

After breakfast and some pool time, my friend arrived at the hotel.  We changed rooms in the hotel.  We went to Seminyak beach which is a busier beach than the one the hotel is near.  It still wasn’t the crowded mess I had heard of.  The streets in Seminyak were crowded with traffic and lined with stores, but it had a nice feel to it, I thought.  We went in search of a place that would do henna tattoos, but failed on that hunt.  Better hunting tomorrow.  They do the bean bag beach bars here too, but there’s a lot more of them.  I got some pictures of them after they had set up for the sunset crowd.  I didn’t get any pictures of them at sunset, but it was nice to just sit in bean bags and watch the waves come in.  We also bought a couple of movies to take back to the hotel.  I was surprised that Allegiant was already out.  But when we went to buy it, they said it might not be good quality.  Aha, it’s an illegal copy.  We got it anyway.  It was ok quality.

I’m feeling a combination of opposites.  I’m tired of people.  I’m tired of being alone.  I don’t want to go back to work, but I’m missing the lack of routine.  I’m tired of doing.  I’m tired of sitting still.   I feel out of place.  I don’t like heat.  I don’t like heat – oh wait, no opposite there.  I feel like I should decide what I’m going to do with my life after teaching.  But why do I have to decide that now?  How is making a decision now living in the flow of life?  I’m trying to live now and the future keeps hopping into my thoughts.  When it does, it brings anxiety and “should” and exhaustion.  Overall, I spend an enormous amount more of my time living now, but the future still has a bit of a hold on me.  And, now that I am so much more aware, I can feel what living for the future does to a body so much stronger.  So, I just watch it when it happens and note how it makes me feel and question who is watching.  I think this is all part of a bigger shift trying to happen.

I found it easier when I was watching the sunset yesterday to just melt into oneness and now than I did tonight.  I think it’s harder for me when I’m with other people.  I still have thoughts that tell me I have to be a certain way, have conversations, do things, be witty, be nice, behave like all the other people, etc.

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Beach

We got up this morning and found a place for breakfast.  It wasn’t very good.  Then we hung out at the Best Western pool until it was time to take Carly to the airport.  They had a really nice pool.

I drove the POS for the last time and was so excited to drop it off.  That might have been the highlight of the day.  I said goodbye to Carly and got a taxi to my new hotel near the beach.  I’ve heard that Kuta and Seminyak are both dirty and over touristy and that I wouldn’t enjoy them.  From my one night in Kuta, I didn’t find it to be that bad, but I didn’t find it worth going back to either.  My hotel in Seminyak is great.

It was a 13 minute walk to the beach.  The beach wasn’t crowded at all.  I got there in time for sunset. There was a beach bar that I hung out at for dinner and sunset.  I was hoping to meet some people and have a nice conversation, but that didn’t happen.  But as I sat there, I just felt how alone I was and then for a while, I didn’t even exist.  I could have stayed like that all night, but I had to go to the bathroom and that kinda broke the not existing experience.  Now, note, I said “alone”.  Did you read “lonely”?  Did you put a negative story on the word “alone”?  Did you assume that if I had met people and had a nice conversation that that would have been the “better” outcome?  “Alone” is not the same as “lonely”, not even close.  Now read it again without judgement, good or bad, or should be.  Do you get a different picture?

So, this is the right way to do a beach bar.  Put on some music, have a bunch of bean bags to sit on, put out some pretty lights, serve drinks and food.  This is as simple, brilliant and perfect as it gets.  Naysayers 0, Seminyak 1.

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Frat Bar

Today we had most of the day on Nusa Lembogan.  After breakfast, we walked down to a nearby beach and rented stand up paddle boards.   It was mostly kneel down paddle boards as the water was quite choppy and neither one of us has done this often.  Not too far off from us was the party flotilla.  There are a couple of barges with slides, kayaks, food and drink, banana boat rides, paragliding, snorkelling, etc.  I think it’s a brilliant idea.  Fill a barge with fun water activities and then boats bring tourists out for a day or afternoon of water fun.  I think between that, the fast boats coming in and out as well as a surf break not far from shore, all created the choppy water.  We still had fun hanging out on the boards, standing up when we got to a less choppy area.

Then lunch.  Some days it does seem the only thing there is to do is eat.  I feel like I’ve been eating a lot.  We spent the rest of the afternoon in the pool until it was time to get the 4:00pm fast boat back to Bali.

We are staying in Kuta tonight.  Kuta is supposed to be known for it’s night life.  I haven’t heard anything nice about Kuta, but it’s near the airport and it might be interesting to see this wild night life.  We had a room at the Best Western.  The website I often use to book hotels is Agoda.  They have been great with their ratings, hotel info and ease of booking.  They are a parasite to your email as they send way too many emails so don’t look them up unless you actually mean to book accommodations through them.  Agoda often gives you a mystery accommodation as an option when you are looking things up.  It’s usually 50-80% discounted, but you don’t know which one it is until you book it.  I kept seeing this and passing on it.  This time I looked at the map that showed possible places it could be.  Most of them were on the beach and I knew I couldn’t afford them.  A couple were not on the beach.  But it was one night so I rolled the dice and lost.  We didn’t get a place on the beach, however it was a very high end Best Western and worth way more than we paid.

In the hotel I saw something I haven’t seen since I left the US – wait for it – wait for it – a shower curtain.  What what?  Top sheets on the bed and shower curtains in the bathroom are lost concepts on SE Asia.  This is definitely a high end hotel.

We went to dinner on tourist restaurant row.  It had a Bubba Gump, so that tells you it’s a tourist town.  We found Mexican food that was pretty good.  Then we headed off to the bar district to catch some of this wild nightlife.  Either it’s really low tourist season or I’ve spent way too much time at parties and bars over the years.  This did not live up to the hype, not even close.  Most of the places were blaring music and handing out flyers and drink coupons, but you looked inside and they were empty.  One bar had workers dressed in Hawaiian shirts and grass skirts and had that frat party feeling.  This is the place the clean cut frat boys on vacation flock to.  We decided it would have the better people watching so we sat ourselves down at the bar and I drank our free drinks.  It was good people watching, but by 11:30pm the bar was still fairly empty with only 5 or 6 people on the dance floor and maybe 15 others scattered around a bar that could easily hold a couple hundred.  There may have been more people working there than customers.  Our bartender was funny and looked like the Balinese version of Bruno Mars.  There was a tiny Asian lady with an older white man.  She was dancing and giggling and just having a great time.  That entertained us for quite a time.  There were three rough looking ladies that were dressed in high heels, low cut tops and short skirts standing near the entrance looking so bored.  Our guess is they were working ladies.  Then there were stilt walkers and women in green afro wigs out front trying to convince people walking by that this was the place to be.  The rest of the people in the bar fit the frat boy / sorority girl description.  Just to finalize the whole frat bar experience, they bar tenders had whistles and they put an armband with the bar’s name on it on us.  And half the drinks came in fancy souvenir glasses or had dry ice in them making them all cool and fancy.

As we walked back to the hotel, it didn’t look like many of the other bars we passed were any busier.  Amateurs.

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Diving Again

Got up early today, checked out of the hotel in Ubud and drove back to Sanur.  I had booked diving on Nusa Lembogan, an island nearby.  Our instructions were to drive to the parking lot of a big resort and then someone would meet us there and we would take a fast boat to the island.  That’s almost as vague as the directions I’ve gotten in Thailand for getting a bus.  Ok, it works out in Thailand, it will work out here.  We had a bit of trouble at the gate to the resort.  They kept asking where I was going and I kept telling them the name of the resort and they asked again.  It was really annoying.  Finally, they got to the point that they wanted to charge me to park there.  Fine.  Why didn’t you just say so 5 minutes ago?  The parking lot was big and had lots of vans, busses, cars and motorbikes coming and going.  This was obviously the place people parked to get the boats.  We were early so instead of waiting for someone to come find us we followed the throng of people down a tiny alley barely big enough for two people to pass each other.  It put us on the beach board walk I liked so much when I was in Sanur last week.  There were a bunch of boat companies.  We found the one that was on my email and checked in.  They had our reservation and gave us wristbands to get on the boat.  When we got to the island there was a guy waiting with my name on a sheet of paper.  See, it all worked out, even though it seemed quite vague to begin with.

Diving was good.  We went to the same two dive spots I did before.  I wasn’t thrilled about that, but they were still good.  Carly had trouble on the first dive, Crystal Bay, so it took a while to start the dive.  She got it all the equipment bugs worked out and we were able to do the dive.  But because it took a while we didn’t do the wall and the point I had done before.  So, it was a new dive in a way.  I got to see crabs and cuttle fish amongst other things.  I’m not sure I’ve ever seen cuttle fish before so that was great.  The next dive was Manta Point.  We saw so many manta.  I couldn’t even count.  On the boat, I had told the dive master I saw 3 octopus when I did this dive a couple weeks ago.  We joked that he needed to find 4 and he said he’d find more.  After watching the manta for half the dive we set out to see other things.  We were almost done with the dive when the dive master pointed off in the distance.  I knew it had to be an octopus, but I couldn’t see him. They are masterful at camouflage.  We swam closer and then I saw him.  We watched him change colors and move from one spot to the next.  They the dive master looked at me and held up one finger to count one octopus.  We didn’t see any others.

I sat down with the dive shop manager after diving and we talked about the dive master program.  I got a similar story as the last one.  It’s not impossible to make a living as a dive master, but it will be difficult, especially in Asia.  I’d have to be an instructor to make any money and even then, it won’t be much.  It’s a lifestyle decision, not a monetary decision.  And if I want to make a career of it, it will be difficult.  I don’t want to make a career of it so I more or less have to decide if I want to do it for a year or so just to do it.  The decision isn’t made yet, but it’s not a slam dunk decision either.

We stayed at bungalows next to the dive shop.  The island is pretty small so there wasn’t a ton to do that night, but they did have an outdoor movie theatre.  The movie is free, you just buy food and drink.  So we had dinner there and sat on big bean bag chairs and watched The Beach.  I hadn’t seen a movie since I left Colorado.  I loved the theatre idea.

I am not a videographer and I’m using my phone and I’m on a boat so the videos are not great, but you’ll get the idea.

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